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Sunday, May 23, 2010

A Quarter Century of Coffee

When I was 20 years old and living in Paris for a semester, I was quite proud of the fact that I had never had coffee.  (Remember, this was 1984 and Starbucks hadn't swallowed the world whole yet.)  At that time, I boasted that I would die before I had a cup and be able to put on my tombstone: "Here lies Joan.  If only she'd had a cup of coffee." 

But after months of sitting in Parisian cafes and ordering water, wine and tea, I broke down.  I ordered a cafe au lait. I didn't actually drink the first few.  Instead, I took advantage of the rectangular sugar cubes served in French cafes. Individually wrapped and quite large, these cubes made for a great conduit of the bitter coffee.  I would dunk one cube after another into my cup and suck the cafe through the sugar.  Sickeningly sweet, I enjoyed every last drop.

Now, looking back over the last 25 years, I can't imagine my life without coffee.  The warmth of a hot cup on a cold winter's day to wake me up.  Or the cool freshness from iced coffee when the weather starts to turn warm.  My light and sweet in a bag on the way to work in New York.  Becky's one-shot coffee maker - perfect each time.  The secret naughtiness of a Dunkin' Donuts coffee.  Dad's awful percolator coffee, complete with grounds.  My first taste of Kona, and finding a cheap stash of Kona in Omaha of all places.

After many serious and not-so-serious conversations later over a cup of Joe with friends, I really just can't conceive how different my life would have been if I'd kept to that 20-year-old's ideal of the java-free life. 

La Fogata

Throughout my adult life, I have often wondered why some memories of my travels stay with me and others vanish quickly.  For instance, I can tell you exactly what was on the radio (Sixth Avenue Heartache) and how the sky and rocks looked when I was stopped at an intersection in the middle of nowhere Oregon on my way to see Crater Lake.  Or feel the hot sun on my back and dry air in my face as I climbed the thousand steps to my hostel in Finale Ligure. And  I can still see the old factories and quiet surface of Lake Erie as I went for a quiet run along the shoreline in Lorraine, Ohio, on a long-ago business trip. 

Why do these things stick with me and not the names of the masters of fine art or the great architecture and historic monuments I've seen?   Why do these little snippets of seeming nothingness flicker through my head from time to time like a favorite, old silent movie?

Another place that brings back fond memories is La Fogata restaurant. I remember vividly walking into this little oasis in the middle of an offbeat neighborhood in San Antonio.  I can still hear the Mexican music and see the vine-covered trellises and white wrought iron tables on that cool Texas night.  I remember lots of laughter and being happily full of rice, beans and margaritas when I walked out. 

What brought me here?  I was about one month into a new job. Even though I didn't really know the new team that well, I had a good feeling when they said we were going to go to San Antonio a few days ahead of a major conference to prepare for the event, buy cowboy boots and visit a friend of the team, Pat. On our first day there, Pat chauffeured us around town in great style looking for appropriate western wear.  A native of San Antonio, Pat knows everybody in town and if there's a great place to be, he'll take you there.  He took us to La Fogata for dinner after a long day of work and shopping.  That day and night have stuck in my memory ever since because I realized that day that I not only taken the right step with my career, but I was also going to make some great friends in the process.

Since that time, I've gotten to know Pat much better and now I consider him a friend as well.  He's funny, generous and a true southern gentleman.  He's a good golfer and even better business man, although he's not perfect - he is a Republican and a Cowboys fan, after all.  So we agree to disagree - violently at times - on certain things.  Even still, he's fun to talk with and I really admire his passion for life and for his family and friends. 

So when another friend and colleague, Sam, recently said that I should come to San Antonio for another work project (and to celebrate his birthday), I jumped at the chance because I knew it would be a great time and we could see Pat.  Little did I know that Pat would take us back to La Fogata for dinner for Sam's birthday.  But that's exactly where I found myself this past Wednesday night.  Sitting at a table with Pat, Sam, Sam's brother and another friend, drinking margaritas, eating amazing guacamole made right at the table, and laughing - a lot. 

On this second visit to La Fogata, I was struck with just how accurate my original memories about the place had been.  When we drove down the street approaching the restaurant, I knew we were close because I saw the run-down bodega we had stopped at the last time to buy lottery tickets.  Then, when we turned onto the street and saw La Fogata with its busy outdoor dining garden, all of my other memories came right back.  I couldn't have been happier - only wished the whole original team could have been there too.  Not that I needed to worry, but now I know La Fogata is permanently etched into my mental movie reel.

Friday, May 21, 2010

The Kindness of Friends and Strangers

Today is one of those bright, beautiful shining days, whose details you may not long remember but whose gist adds up to make life a good thing. 

This morning, Shadow I walked over to Phil's house and visited with Jean, her daughter Sarah, and their puppy Toby.  Shadow and Toby played hard for about an hour and then collapsed in a heap of drool and panting.  Sarah told me all about her visit with Mickey (and Donald the Duck) and smiled and was her adorable two-year-old self. And Jean and I had one of our usual good chats about wine and boys and nothing.  Tim happened along during the middle of the visit and we got to enjoy his company for a few minutes.

Shadow and I then returned home and welcomed Lisa for her first visit to the house.  We managed to do a few hours of honest work. It was so nice to visit with her and have someone who is so important to me spend time in my home. 

I just returned from a lovely, long walk with Shadow - his favorite route.  Just as we neared home, my neighbor said hello (I don't know his name, but call him Miso's dad after his dog's name).  He asked if I do any vegetable gardening, which I do, and he proceeded to give me a flat of gorgeous tomatoes.  Stripeys and Romas and a few other varieties I had never heard of.  This should be a great growing season!  And what a generous act from someone I barely know.  Life is good.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Mellow Yellow

This past weekend was anything but mellow, and everything about fun. Michael and Katherine (also known as Mikey and Kat) got hitched at Wye River on a beautiful golden afternoon surrounded by great family and fun friends. I was so happy to have been invited and to share in their day.


The whole weekend was spent outside. We sat out on the back porch having drinks, enjoyed the reception on a huge deck above the river, had a fun hash with a beer check by the river, and ate crabs and shrimp out on the Bay. There were many bird sightings along the way, including multiple osprey nests and osprey in action. 

Then there was the wedding itself - intimate and sweet. There were many touching notes, from the minister who spoke personally to the couple to a lovely reading by Abigail Adams read by my friend Melissa.  A very moving moment for me was when Kat's dad gave her away. When asked who was giving Katherine to be married, her father said, "Her father does ... with great pride."

Everywhere you looked there were touches of the couple. Photos from their childhood lined the path to the reception and instead of traditional table numbers, they used bib numbers from their past races.  The accent color throughout was yellow - bright and cheery, hopeful. Here's what I brought home from the wedding to remind me of the great time and the great couple.


Thanks, Kat and Mikey for a bright, beautiful, wonderful time, and many, many years of happiness to both of you.

Sunday, May 09, 2010

Up Close

One of the things that I've decided to do more of during this career change process is take pictures.  As I went about purchasing a new camera, I did some thinking about what I would use it for.  I bought my new camera, a Nikon D5000, thinking that I would be taking more long-distance, nature photography given my apparent career direction.  After all, as a naturalist and a birder, it's not often that a choice sighting will sit still for a close-up portrait.  So I thought about long lenses and fast shutter speed, a light camera, and no tripod.  I only started to realize when I began really taking pictures that what I love in nature is the close and the intimate. 

Much of my photography of late has been portraits of extremely small objects that I set against different backgrounds.  I've been interested in how light affects composition (obvious for a photographer, but please forgive me for being obvious since I'm new to this game) and how color and texture can set an object apart. 

Anyhoo, enough of this artsy gobbeldy goo.  Here are some recent photos that I've liked of spring images (believe it not, that leaf just fell last week), with a snow photo in there to remind us why we deserve the great weather we've been having.

That is not to say I didn't get some great photos of monkeys playing in the trees above my head in Panama.  But that is for another day.

Why I Love Washington

On any given day in Washington, you're bound to meet people with great stories, which to me is what makes life worth living.  Better yet, because DC is DC, you'll meet people who tell stories about politics - intrigue, behind the scenes details not found in the Post or online, and tidbits you'll tuck away for later retelling at your next cocktail party.  This past Friday night, I was reminded why I love being out and about in Washington and why I love touching elbows with these movers and shakers.

I was fortunate that my friends Jess and Doug invited me to join them and their family for dinner and to see Hamlet at the Folger Library.  Jess's father, Ken, is one of DC's political elite, but more relevant to this evening, he is passionate about Shakespeare and particularly passionate about Hamlet.  Jess's mother, Carol, is also a Shakespeare lover and also a DC power broker. 

We started the evening out at Bistro Cacao on the Hill, where we dined outside and all enjoyed great French food (particularly the filet mignon and venison).  At the table with us was Frank Gannon, a long-time friend of Ken and Carol, who worked in the Nixon White House and had many stories to tell.  I quickly learned about Frank's Nixon connection because Doug and Jess had dressed their daughter in a onesy with a photo of Nixon and the tag line WWND: What Would Nixon Do? across the front of it.  Many pictures were taken of Frank and the baby.

Frank was quickly asked to tell one of his Nixon stories, which started with some basic background details. As a young White House staffer with a writer's temperament, Frank admitted he could not get himself into the office before 11 a.m. most mornings, something rather unheard of in the Nixon administration.  While he did sleep late most mornings, Frank noted that he was religious about having his alarm go off at 10 a.m., which to his young mind was a sign of honor and great commitment to the job.

One morning, Frank was awakened just before his alarm to find the White House operator asking him to hold for the President.  As he said, he was somewhere in between levels two and three of R.E.M. sleep at the time and not particularly ready to speak with the Commander of the Free World. As Frank was coming to, he heard Nixon's voice over the phone just as his clock radio alarm turned on blasting the Beetles' Strawberry Fields Forever.  Here he is, flat on his back with a line to the President on one side and the embodiment of the counter culture Nixon so despised in the background.  Frank said it was all he could do to focus on answering the President's questions while trying to shut off the radio across the room.  (Why was Nixon calling?  To clarify a quote from Churchill.  Frank had written much on Churchill, and as this was before the Internet, the President just called Frank for the answer.)

My question to Frank was whether or not he thought Nixon would have known or cared where he was at that time.  He said that Nixon would have assumed he was at his office at work at that hour - without doubt or question that is what he expected of his staff. And then Jess clarified.  She noted that Nixon wouldn't have cared where Frank was or even taken note of it.  As the President, all you know - or all you need to know - is that when you call someone or need an answer, they will always take your call and always have the answer you want.  Living is easy with eyes closed, indeed!

The rest of the evening was a hit as well.  Hamlet was very well acted, especially the actors who played Hamlet and Polonius.  I was particularly interested in the set and costumes, both of which were modern in feel although didn't necessarily correspond to the tone of this particular Hamlet.  The set - stark, all white, angled - I took to be a modernist Danish look, white the better to show off the acting.  Doug went deeper than I did and saw it as a symbol that everyone in the court but Hamlet had moved on, further highlighting his isolation.  Either way, its best effect was through the use of light and shadow, especially during the to be or not to be soliloquy and during the play within a play (Murder of Gonzago), which was done using a light and shadow show across the faces of the cast and across the white-walled backdrop.

If the "soul of a man is his clothes," then the costumes in this production should have been re-thought.  They were very disappointing and I didn't understand their connection to the play.  My take on the costumes could have had much to do with our seats in the front row or it may have had something to do with my ability to get lost in a detail and lose sight of the bigger picture.  Either way, while Hamlet's and Gertrude's outfits were spot on - he in black and gray, fitted clothing, she in stunning, queenly outfits, all with glitter or jewels - the rest of the cast's outfits were just a bit off.  The clothes themselves were very poorly cut and not well maintained - too large in places, holes in others, shoes unpolished.  This was particularly striking in the uniforms worn by Claudius and King Hamlet.  Uniforms are meant to fit properly, and the effect of them hanging loosely and ill-formed was off-putting to me, especially given the modernity of the set and the other actors' clothing.  I did like that all of the male actors (save Horatio) were fully bearded; that was a nice unifying touch.

And here I am again, lost in the detail and missing the big picture, which this night was enjoying the company of some very interesting people who told great stories with zeal and shared their passion for one of the world's great plays.  Thank you, Washington!